Empowering Midlife Women: 4 Benefits of Pilates in Menopause Wellness

Empowering Midlife Women: 4 Benefits of Pilates in Menopause Wellness

When it comes to menopause, it can seem that women have been dealt the short straw. They hit their 40s or 50s and begin experiencing hot flushes, incontinence, and other symptoms they never had before. However menopause manifests, there’s no doubt that midlife is a time of change. Doing Pilates in menopause can support your body’s changing needs.

Although I haven’t hit menopause yet myself, I have worked with many women as they navigate this new life stage. Personally, I manage my own hormone related condition which, although different from menopause, has taught me empathy for people who are balancing life and health. I’ve learned to listen to my body and adapt my lifestyle to support the symptoms of fluctuating hormones. Body changes like menopause can feel worrying and frustrating, but they also offer the potential to become an empowering time when a woman can re-learn her body. This blog explores 4 ways that doing Pilates in menopause can be a stepping stone to better midlife health.

“Body changes like menopause can feel worrying. But they also offer the potential to become an empowering time when a woman can re-learn her body.”

ONE

Pilates in menopause reduces incontinence.

Oestrogen is influential in pelvic floor elasticity and thickness of the urethra lining. So, as oestrogen declines during menopause, you may notice an occasional leak when you laugh, jump, cough, or sneeze. This can feel frustrating and embarrassing, but it is in fact an extremely common experience. It’s important to address urinary incontinence, as it can cause UTIs if left untreated.

The Pilates method teaches you to engage your deepest core muscles, including the pelvic floor. More than just ‘kegels’, your body will learn how to control all parts of the pelvic floor during movement as well as static posture. Though this can take concentration at first, over time, pelvic floor control will become natural and subconscious.  

TWO

Pilates develops mindfulness.

Many women in menopause experience heightened anxiety, stress, and mood swings. Stress boosts cortisol, which can play havoc with already fluctuating reproduction hormones. Perhaps you also get brain fog and find that you forget things that should be second nature. When my condition first developed, I would sporadically experience this symptom too. I once found myself tongue tied over the word ‘hamstrings’ mid class!

Practicing mindfulness, grounding, and relaxation techniques has dramatically eased my experience of brain fog and, whilst I still experience anxiety sometimes, I feel better equipped to manage it.

Pilates is a mindful movement practice, and breathwork features in every class. Mindful movement teaches us to be aware of how our body feels and anchors us in the present moment. Just spending that hour lovingly in your body can help bring you down out of your head. The key is to work with your body and breath rather than fighting it. Take breaks when you need, and choose the level that suits YOU best, not your neighbour.

At Cove Mind & Body, we play calming music and use fragrant essential oils to create a tranquil space that feels like home. My favourites are grounding vetiver and uplifting citrus.

THREE

Pilates can improve bone health.

The body has cells that build bone and cells that ‘eat’ bone. These two types of cells work together to maintain a healthy skeleton. However, during menopause, the decrease in oestrogen causes the body to absorb bone minerals faster than it can build them. This leads to reduced bone density, which is a risk factor for fractures and osteoporosis.

We can work to counteract the decline in bone density by stimulating the bone building cells. When muscles pull on bones, they create a signal to the bone builders to work harder. Pilates involves weight bearing, balance, and resistance-based exercises. So, regularly doing Pilates in menopause is an enjoyable way to strengthen your bones. The controlled, low impact nature of the method makes Pilates a safe choice with minimal risk of falls.

FOUR

Pilates balances & strengthens muscles.

Scoliosis is often thought of as a condition that develops in adolescence. But many women are first diagnosed during menopause. Scoliosis describes a lateral and rotational curvature of the spine. Women may first notice that they experience new muscle pain on one side of their body, or that their clothes hang differently but they can’t work out why. There is some debate over the precise link between menopause and scoliosis, but there are some suggestions that it’s related to degeneration of the vertebral disks and bones.

Whilst doing Pilates in menopause can’t reverse scoliosis, it can significantly improve pain, mobility, and posture by creating balance across the muscles. Pilates exercises lengthen areas that are compressed by scoliosis and strengthen areas that are weak. Even if you don’t develop scoliosis, menopause is correlated with muscle wasting. So, regular strengthening movements like Pilates is recommended.

Just what you need

Times of transition can rouse a renewed focus on health and wellbeing. Whether your symptoms are primarily physical, mental, or emotional, Pilates is an excellent tool to support your mind & body’s current needs. The gifts of Pilates in menopause include stronger bones, stress and anxiety relief, muscle and postural balance, and improved urinary continence.

If you haven’t tried Pilates before, it’s never too late to start. These benefits can be experienced in as little as 12 weeks. Start (or continue) your Pilates journey at Cove Mind & Body. Reserve your space in our next beginner’s or mixed ability Pilates classes here.

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Cove Mind & Body

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East Looe

Cornwall

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Origin Story: How A Sports Injury Inspired Me

Origin Story: How A Sports Injury Inspired Me

Origin Story

How a Sports Injury Led Me To Become A Small Business Owner

When I was at university, I had a sports injury that completely reshaped the direction of my life.

It led me to opportunities where I met some inspiring women in sports and business and showed me that I could do that too. Without this series of events, I probably wouldn’t be the Pilates Studio owner you know today.

Outside of lecture time at University, I enjoyed physical activity. I was a keen runner, was on the waterpolo team, and had started weightlifting. One chilly morning in October, I zipped up my jacket, laced my trainers, and headed out for a 10-mile jog. I managed to navigate the frosty paths without slipping. At least… until I was 1 meter from my front door! Like Del Boy through the bar, I crumpled to the ground in a heap.

Later, at A&E, I found out I had a radial head (elbow) fracture and had badly sprained the ligament that stabilises the nerves in that area. My arm had swollen so much that it wouldn’t fit in my sleeve, and it had turned a fruity purple. The injury would leave me unable to write for a while and feeling like I’d hit my funny bone for the next 18 months.

“I had no idea that there was a place for women in sports and business.”

Unfortunately, I was unable to complete my final teaching placement in time and had the option to defer for a year or graduate without qualified teacher status. I chose the latter, which meant I only had a few hours a week of university contact time for my final 2 semesters.

I could have spent the extra time dossing about. But with my mum’s encouragement, I set about seeking opportunities to explore my interests. Although I didn’t want to become a teacher anymore, I was daunted by the prospect of having to figure out my next steps. Then, it seemed to me like the choices for women were becoming a nurse, a teacher, or a mother. I had no idea that there was a place for women in business.

I was already working part time for a small indie business that built and repaired bicycles. I managed stock and invoices, cleaned, served customers, learned to lace wheel spokes, and even got to test-ride some high spec Italian race bikes! I was gaining valuable insight into the different aspects of running a business and I was curious.

So, I entered the Sports Innovation Challenge (SIC) to learn more about entrepreneurship. At that time, I didn’t really understand that being a business owner was an available option to me as a young woman. But I was intrigued by the sports element and an opportunity for creativity. 

Now, as an active girl, I was an outlier among my peers. Even at a university renowned for sporting excellence, sporty women were a minority in my social circle. The sports and fitness industry was on the cusp of the changes we are starting to see today; making more space for girls and women in sport and business. But it wasn’t until I joined SIC that I really found women to look up to.

Through the programme, I had the opportunity to attend the Women In Sport conference. I also attended workshops on business planning, marketing, and research & development. I developed my product – medical ID for people who exercise alone, inspired by my own recent accident. Of over 200 students who engaged with the first stage of the challenge, my application was shortlisted to the final 10. I couldn’t believe it!

The achievement opened many new doors for me, and behind them stood my new role models. They were proof that women could be both business owners and hold space in the sporting world.

To help develop our ideas, the other candidates and I had meeting and mentoring opportunities with inspiring, strong women in sports and business;

  • Alex Feechan (CEO of Findra), who designed and manufactured a line of outdoors sports clothing for women.
  • Hinda Miller, who redesigned her husband’s jockstrap to create the world’s first ever sports bra (I’m still her biggest fan!) and,
  • Tennis coach and influential speaker, Judy Murray.

 Shortly after, I pitched my idea to an expert panel of judges including Bonamy Grimes (co-founder of Skyscanner), Edel Tucker (Addidas design director), and Jonny Curley (Director of Anytime Leisure).

I received positive feedback on my idea and pitch, but I didn’t make it through to the final 3. Still, the process remains the catalyst that changed my perspective. I understood that there were more options for women, and there is a space for women in sport and business.

Women can be strong, successful business owners. And now, I had a basic understanding of what being a business owner entailed. The seed was sown, and the spark was lit. From then on, I was determined to run my own business. I will be forever grateful for these experiences and the role models I met. I hope that one day I’m able to pay it forward to the next generation of female business owners.

Hello@covecornwall.co.uk

Cove Mind & Body

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East Looe

Cornwall

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Our Values

Our Values

Our Values

In the bustling world we live in, it can be all too easy to lose sight of what truly matters – our mind and body connection. At Cove Mind & Body, we strive to embody the core values of authenticity, balance, presence, kinship, and heart in everything we do. These values serve as our guiding lights, illuminating the path towards holistic well-being and self-fulfilment. Join us on a journey of inner harmony and outer radiance as we explore the essence of these values and their transformative power in our lives.

Authenticity

Authenticity allows us to show up as our true selves, unapologetically and without fear. By embracing our authentic selves, we can cultivate a sense of inner peace and self-acceptance that radiates outwards, inspiring others to do the same.

‘Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are.’ Brene Brown

Pilates can teach us much about authenticity. Through attuning to our body’s unique strengths, limitations, and preferences, we develop a deep trust with our physical selves. We gain confidence from our strengths and learn grace for our limitations. Pilates requires us to meet ourselves where we are.

At Cove, we align with the value of authenticity through honesty and integrity in all that we do. Here, authenticity reigns supreme, empowering each person to embrace their true selves without fear or reservation.

Balance

In a world filled with constant distractions and demands, finding balance is essential for maintaining our well-being. Balance is about honouring our needs and priorities, creating harmony between work and play, rest and activity, and mind and body. By striving for balance in all aspects of our lives, we can cultivate a sense of equilibrium that promotes overall health and happiness.

Through Pilates we also create balance within our body. Pilates trains your muscles (especially the smaller postural muscles) to work in synergy, creating strong alignment and posture.

At Cove, balance is not a distant ideal but a tangible reality, a delicate dance between work and play, rest and activity, mind, and body.

Presence

Mindfulness and presence are key components of our approach to well-being. Being fully present in the moment allows us to cultivate awareness, gratitude, and a deeper connection to ourselves, others, and the world around us. By practicing presence, we can reduce stress, enhance our focus, and experience life more fully, one moment at a time.

We may practice presence through Pilates, focusing on each movement and noticing our breath. At Cove you are invited to savour each moment as it unfolds.

Kinship

Picture a community where kinship is not just a concept but a lived reality, where individuals come together in unity and support, bound by a shared journey towards growth and fulfilment.

We believe in the power of connection and community. Kinship is more than just a feeling of belonging; it is a deep understanding that we are all interconnected and interdependent. By fostering kinship, we create a supportive and nurturing environment where individuals can thrive and grow together. Here, you will receive warm support without judgement whether you are new to Pilates or have practised all your life.

Heart

At the core of everything we do is the value of heart – compassion, kindness, and care for self, other, and environment. Embracing the power of the heart allows us to cultivate meaningful connections, walk gently on this earth, and spread love and positivity to all those we encounter.

By leading with heart, Cove Mind & Body can create a nurturing and empathetic environment where individuals feel seen and accepted.

Welcome to a place where mind meets body, and where the heart is at the centre of it all.

Hello@covecornwall.co.uk

Cove Mind & Body

Fore Street

East Looe

Cornwall

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The Art Of Slow Living

The Art Of Slow Living

The Art of Slow Living

The aromatic steam rises from her mug, filling her senses with fennel, chamomile, and sweet honey. Inhale, exhale. She draws her woolly blanket over her pyjama-clad legs and feels deep gratitude for her moment of solace. With each sip the herbal infusion warms her from the inside, harmonising with the ambience of her morning. The soothing melody of the rain pattering rhythmically draws her attention to two raindrops chasing one another down the windowpane. She watches with delight as their paths intertwine and diverge in a playful display. They seem to have a life of their own, joyfully dancing in the rain-soaked world outside. In this moment she feels connected to nature’s whimsical beauty and truly appreciates the simplicity of stillness and observation.

What is slow living?

Do you remember the tale of The Hare and The Tortoise? When they agree to race the hare bounds off leaving the tortoise in his dust, but he soon burns out and is forced to rest, exhausted. Meanwhile, that wise old tortoise takes his time, pauses to admire the daisies, enjoys a snack on the way, and arrives at the finish line feeling fulfilled and accomplished!

Slow living is an invitation to take your time, appreciate the little moments, and create a life that aligns with your values and brings genuine fulfilment. It’s a lifestyle philosophy characterised by finding balance, embracing simplicity, and living with intention. Slow living creates space for wellbeing, relationships, and the things that matter most to you. When we slow down, we may really take in all that this wonderful life has to offer, even as simply as enjoying a herbal tea through a rain storm.

The basic elements of a slow living lifestyle include:

  • Mindfulness and presence.
  • Intentional choices that prioritise your values
  • Simplicity and minimalism
  • Balance and rest
  • Connection and relationships
  • Sustainable living through mindful consumption

In a fast-paced and busy world, slow living cultivates a deeper connection with ourselves, others, and the natural world. Through this philosophy we may declutter our lives and minds and live lives that truly set our souls alight.

Presence Over Perfection

Slow living sounds wonderful doesn’t it? But it can sound incongruent with present day society. You may be thinking it seems impossible to adopt this lifestyle right now, especially with 3 spirited children to raise and the pressures of a busy work life.

 

The beauty of slow living is that you don’t need any special equipment or experiences to participate. The philosophy is all about experiencing the present moment to the full, however mundane it may seem at first glance. Adopting this mindset for even a few minutes a day will help you to slow down, quiet your mind-chatter, and do wonders for your wellbeing.

 

Take a moment right now to check in with your senses. What beauty can you see around you? Do you hear your neighbours going about their daily tasks? Is your clothing soft and warm against your skin? Inhale, exhale.

Become The Tortoise

Here are some simple ways you can slow your life down.

 

  • Declutter a room, surface, or even a small drawer. Curate your belongings. Recycle, sell, or donate items until you’re left only with things you love, use, and enjoy.

 

  • Support a local business. Whether it’s attending a fresh food market, choosing prints from a neighbouring artist, or enjoying a Pilates class at your local studio, buying locally is a great way to engage and connect with your community. Shopping locally can also reduce your carbon footprint.

 

  • Spend time in nature. At Cove we’re lucky enough to have the South West Coast Path on our doorstep, but you can engage with nature anywhere. Notice the green shoots coming up between the pavement cracks, feel the wind on your skin whilst you watch the kid’s play football, buy a couple of house plants and observe their growth.

 

  • Do one task at a time. Multitasking is a sure sign of a busy mind and overflowing to-do list. Choose one task and do it at a leisurely pace, focussing on only that task until it’s complete. If you have little ones, perhaps engage them. Small children have a knack of slowing down chores!

 

  • Say ‘no’. Slow living means prioritising those things that you cannot live without. Your time is sovereign. So, if you receive an invitation that doesn’t align, or are asked to do something that you don’t have space for, politely turn it down or suggest an alternative activity.

 

Slow living places our values at the heart of our lifestyle. By savouring the present moment, favouring quality over quantity, and making mindful choices, we curate a conscious and intentional life.

 

What does slow living mean to you? I’d love to hear about the ways you’ve taken a slower approach to life in the comments.

Hello@covecornwall.co.uk

Cove Mind & Body

Fore Street

East Looe

Cornwall

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The Mermaids of Cove and Seaton

The Mermaids of Cove and Seaton

The Mermaids of Cove and Seaton

The weak sun wavers as it drops below the horizon. The endless blue-black wash of the sea reflects and refracts like crumpled tin foil at golden hour. She summersaults and glides beneath the water, feeling the rush of bubbles graze her skin as they pop to the surface. Rumours of her legend whisper along the coast and sweep through the villages with the wind. You know she is there, you’re sure. Yet the ocean’s cloak conceals her, and she dodges your curious gaze.

Do you believe in mermaids?

Throughout folklore, culture, and mythology mermaids are imagined in many polarizing ways. From kind, charming, and innocent to vicious, cruel, and destructive. The Cove Mind & Body icon features a mermaid, of the serene and beautiful kind. She was designed by Rachel from Wilding Studios, who shaped the branding. I wanted an icon as part of the logo family and imagined it to be something folky and related to the local area, possibly a selkie or mermaid. Rachel presented a range of ideas featuring mermaids and Cornish choughs. It sealed the deal. I was instantly drawn to the mermaids and asked some friends to help me choose which design to go with as they were all so gorgeous.

I think our mermaid completes Cove so well. She embodies so many of the things that inspire me and that I want to manifest through my class, workshop, and gathering offering. Mermaids come from folklore and storytelling. They connect people to the natural environment and the sea. They spark imagination, creativity, magic, and adventure. In more contemporary culture they’re becoming synonymous with self-care.

There is a mermaid resident along the coast here, between Looe and Downderry. The story goes that the sandy beach of Seaton was once a thriving fishing village, the ocean brimming with bream and bass. A crew of fishermen cast their nets into a shoal of pilchards near the harbour. Intrigued by the burly giants, the mermaid approached and began to flirt. But the men, busy with the task at hand, rejected her advances in favour of securing their catch. In the flurry, the mermaid became entangled with the nets too. A young sailor noticed and cut her free with his knife. But the mermaid was insulted and angry. Scorned, she shrieked her curse and whipped up a whirling sandstorm. Sand heaps over the harbour and destroys the village. From then on, Seaton was simply a beautiful beach nestled in the coast of South East Cornwall.

 

 

We may never catch a glimpse of the mermaid in the sea. And there will always be contrasting stereotypes of the enigmatic mythical creature. But the Cove mermaid represents looking after yourself and nature and connects us to folk culture, imagination, and creativity.

Hello@covecornwall.co.uk

Cove Mind & Body

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East Looe

Cornwall

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The Cove Story

The Cove Story

The Cove Story

As you stroll down Fore Street in heart of Looe, you may spot Cove Mind & Body – a cosy and welcoming Pilates studio. Come inside and you might find me with a small group of people stretching or strengthening on our mats. Pilates is the shining star at Cove.

But on another day, you might find us laughing together over a hot drink, relaxing in a sound bath, or engrossed in our sketchbooks learning new techniques. Born from a vision of an approachable Pilates studio with a home-from-home feel, Cove Mind & Body is a place to come as you are.

At its core, Cove is about living wholeheartedly through being kind to yourself, your health, and the planet. In 2019, I was diagnosed with a chronic health condition. My personal experimentation with managing the condition both pre- and post- diagnosis attested to the magic of slow living for better health. Putting time into myself allowed me to show up better in my personal and professional life.

“By slowing down and intentionally placing your true values at the heart of your lifestyle, a slow living mindset encourages you to live in self-awareness and make conscious, purposeful decisions for the benefit of your well-being and that of the planet.” – Slow Living LDN

Five years later, I welcome you to Cove Mind & Body to share my passion for Pilates and the elixir of connection, movement, rest, play, and nature that help me to feel my best.

I welcome all abilities to my Pilates classes. I particularly enjoy introducing beginners and supporting people with injuries or health conditions. I first trained as a Pilates instructor to improve the rehabilitation outcomes for my clients in my previous role as a soft tissue therapist. My 8-years there taught me to adapt movement and create effective variations for a broad spectrum of bodies and health concerns. My professional yet intuitive approach combined with small class sizes cultivates a friendly and safe environment for exercise. I aim for you to leave feeling content and 5 inches taller!

So Cove Mind & Body IS a Pilates studio, but more than that. It’s a place to connect, create, discover, and recharge. A place to come and get just what you need.

Hello@covecornwall.co.uk

Cove Mind & Body

Fore Street

East Looe

Cornwall

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